Questions to Ask Your Ex

Published: 16th January 2009
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Questions to ask your ex, isn't that something to think about? I am sure that you have already thought up quite a few of them and either they are too offensive or just plain dumb. Each time a relationship breaks up it is bound to give the concerned parties heartburn as massive as the Mississippi and guess what, you are no different. But if you plan on getting back with your ex, then you need to know that asking offensive questions or even the inquisitive ones is not the best way to go about it. After a break up, you can either opt to remain in touch with your ex or just forget the whole sorry episode and move on, the choice is yours. So let's say that you opt to remain in touch with your ex and now are planning to get back with her - well here are a few questions that you can ask her. You must remember that the 'after breakup' time is a y sensitive period for both of you, for this is the period that may well decide the course of your relationship with each other.

For starters, you cannot ask her about her current boyfriends, that is a no-no. But you can discuss it though if she brings it up even though it may be hard for you to do so the first time around. These discussions are useful in the sense that it helps to develop the trust between the both of you and on the other hand, allows you to figure out a way to get in the good books with your ex. Here are a few 'Questions to ask your ex', something that you have to do especially if you are harboring any thoughts on getting back with her.

Since the break up, you are bound to feel a little bitter towards your ex; that's the norm, but you will need to find your way past the bitterness. That being said, here is the list of questions that you need to ask your ex, especially if you want to get her back.

1. Ask her for an honest feedback on what went wrong?

This is important, as you will need to work on this issue and it may even help you to understand her even better. You can count on your ex to give you an honest feedback and at least, with this feedback, you no longer need to spend sleepless nights wondering what went wrong.

2. Ask her for a makeover opinion - By asking this, you are not crossing any barrier and would be indicating to her that you are willing to change for the better.

3. Ask her why certain topics are important to her - with this question, you can figure out what makes her tick.

4. Ask her if she is okay with being friends with you even after the break up - This question is important for all the right reasons as an answer in the affirmative would tell you that your ex is interested in you or at least, partly so. This question should make it partly clear as to whether there is any hope for the both of you being able to work it out.

These are some questions that you can ask your ex and as you can see, these questions accomplish a lot more than an offensive question ever would. Good luck!

If you would like to get a complete step-by-step guide on how to get back with your ex, then make sure you check out the How To Get Her Back For Good by George Karanastasis.

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